First Universalist Church of Southold

A Unitarian Universalist Congregation 

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Sermons


February 7, 2010 at 10:30 a.m.

“Where is the ’You’ in Unitarian Universalist Religion?”


Answering the question can help us understand one another.  We are a diverse people with different beliefs, social locations, and values, yet we are all under one umbrella of Unitarian Universalism.

February 14, 2010 at 10:30 a.m.

”God and Humor”


An examination of the use of humor in teaching and relating to God, in the form of jokes and humorous stories, featuring such writers as Woody Allen and Mark Twain.

Alan Stewart, lay leader


February 21, 2010 at 10:30 a.m.

“A Return to Center:  Wisdom in Heartbreak”

A broken heart or heartbreak is a common metaphor used to describe the intense emotional pain or suffering one feels after losing a loved one, through death, divorce, breakup, moving, being rejected or other means.  How can we find wisdom in heartbreak?

Rev. Addae Ama Kraba

February 28, 2009 at 10:30 a.m.

“The Many Faces of God”


Why is it so hard to accept the good news?  Perhaps because we think it’s too much of a burden to bear, or because others have made us doubt ourselves.  You do not need to try to become special; you already are unique.  In all the world, there is no other exactly like you.

Rev. Addae Ama Kraba

Words of Addae

The Wisdom of Surrender

 

Most Unitarian Universalists pride themselves on the idea of self-sufficiency.  We like to pull our own weight in the world, and take care of ourselves.  So when we are in situations that result in relying on someone else, it can be very challenging.  This can happen as the result of an illness or an injury, or even in the event of a positive change, such as the arrival of a newborn.  But during these times it is essential to let go of feeling like we should be able to do everything alone, and to accept the help of others.  However, the first step is accepting the situation fully as it is.  Many times, we tend to make things worse by either trying to do more than we should or by lapsing into feelings of uselessness.  And in both cases we run the risk of actually prolonging our dependency, and missing a valuable opportunity to practice acceptance and humility.  When we move into acceptance, we move into the deeper realm of the soul, because in needing others and by allowing them to help us, we experience the full realization that we are not alone in the world.  To acknowledge that we need others is to risk feelings of vulnerability, but there is also space for a deeper feeling of gratitude.  It takes wisdom and strength to surrender to our own helplessness and to accept that we have limitations just like every other human being.  To surrender is to discover the many gifts of humility, gratitude, and a deepening understanding of the human experience.  Ultimately, we begin opening ourselves to more wisdom and compassion when called to be of service to others

Love & Light,

Rev. Addae